100 Would You Rather Questions for Long Distance Couples (Cute, Fun & Spicy)

Being apart doesn’t mean you can’t have fun together. Games like Would You Rather are a simple way to spark conversations, share laughs, and even discover new things about each other. Whether you want to keep it light and cute, dive into romance, or add a little spice, this list has you covered.

Here are 100 Would You Rather questions for long-distance couples to try on your next video call or date night.

🧡 Cute Would You Rather Questions

1. Would you rather get a handwritten love letter or a surprise care package?

2. Would you rather cuddle on the couch or go for a walk together?

3. Would you rather have matching hoodies or matching mugs?

4. Would you rather fall asleep on a call or wake up to a good morning text?

5. Would you rather get a surprise photo or a surprise voice note?

6. Would you rather celebrate Valentine’s Day virtually or wait until you’re together?

7. Would you rather share dessert or order one for each other?

8. Would you rather binge-watch a show together or play an online game together?

9. Would you rather do a virtual movie night or a virtual dinner date?

10. Would you rather I plan our next date or you plan it?

    
    

💕 Romantic Would You Rather Questions

11. Would you rather dance with me in the living room or under the stars?

12. Would you rather go on a weekend getaway to the beach or the mountains?

13. Would you rather slow dance to our song or sing it together karaoke-style?

14. Would you rather I surprise you with flowers or with your favorite snack?

15. Would you rather spend a day with me doing nothing or exploring a new city?

16. Would you rather renew our vows someday in private or in front of family?

17. Would you rather write me a poem or a song?

18. Would you rather spend our anniversary at home or travelling somewhere new?

19. Would you rather cook dinner for me or cook dinner together?

20. Would you rather celebrate big milestones or all the little everyday moments?

    
    

🎉 Fun Would You Rather Questions

21. Would you rather do karaoke together or take a dance class?

22. Would you rather go skydiving or scuba diving?

23. Would you rather watch a horror movie or a rom-com together?

24. Would you rather plan a road trip or a cruise?

25. Would you rather play board games or video games on a date night?

26. Would you rather prank each other or team up to prank someone else?

27. Would you rather spend a day at a theme park or a zoo?

28. Would you rather be in a cooking competition or a trivia competition with me?

29. Would you rather we get matching tattoos or matching jewelry?

30. Would you rather take couple’s photos professionally or DIY?

    
    

🔥 Spicy Would You Rather Questions

31. Would you rather kiss me slowly or passionately?

32. Would you rather whisper sweet things or bold things to me?

33. Would you rather send a spicy selfie or receive one?

34. Would you rather I tease you with compliments or with dares?

35. Would you rather get caught flirting with me in public or in private?

36. Would you rather surprise me with a kiss on the cheek or on the lips?

37. Would you rather I tell you my dream about you or keep you guessing?

38. Would you rather we share a steamy secret or a sweet one?

39. Would you rather I hold your hand or hug you tightly?

40. Would you rather have a playful date or a passionate date night?

    
    

🌀 Mix of Cute, Fun, Romantic & Spicy (41–100)

41. Would you rather spend Christmas with me or New Year’s Eve?

42. Would you rather write me a letter or send me a video message?

43. Would you rather share headphones on a plane or watch movies separately?

44. Would you rather plan a picnic or a candlelit dinner?

45. Would you rather dance in the rain or snuggle by the fire?

46. Would you rather play a board game or a card game with me?

47. Would you rather give me a surprise gift or receive one?

48. Would you rather I call you by a pet name or your full name?

49. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or a midnight snack together?

50. Would you rather share a milkshake or an ice cream sundae?

51. Would you rather visit Paris or Rome with me?

52. Would you rather be silly together in public or keep it private?

53. Would you rather I take a goofy selfie or a serious one?

54. Would you rather send me a playlist or a handwritten note?

55. Would you rather get a back hug or a forehead kiss?

56. Would you rather binge-watch my favorite show or yours?

57. Would you rather celebrate Valentine’s Day twice a year or birthdays twice a year?

58. Would you rather go camping or stay in a luxury hotel?

59. Would you rather I wear your hoodie or you wear mine?

60. Would you rather be my first call in the morning or my last call at night?

61. Would you rather we laugh until we cry or cry until we laugh?

62. Would you rather play truth or dare or would you rather?

63. Would you rather share a secret with me or hear one of mine?

64. Would you rather make me blush or laugh?

65. Would you rather I serenade you or dance for you?

66. Would you rather kiss me in public or private?

67. Would you rather give me a compliment or receive one?

68. Would you rather tell me a bedtime story or hear one from me?

69. Would you rather wake up next to me or fall asleep next to me?

70. Would you rather play fight with pillows or tickle fight?

71. Would you rather send me flowers or chocolate?

72. Would you rather watch the sunrise or sunset together?

73. Would you rather take selfies together or candid photos?

74. Would you rather get a long hug or lots of little kisses?

75. Would you rather we share secrets or silly jokes?

76. Would you rather send me a good morning message or a goodnight one?

77. Would you rather hold my hand for an hour or kiss me once?

78. Would you rather I surprise you with a trip or with a date?

79. Would you rather we dress up fancy or stay comfy in PJs?

80. Would you rather go stargazing or cloud-watching?

81. Would you rather spend a lazy Sunday with me or an adventurous Saturday?

82. Would you rather get me a gift or make me something?

83. Would you rather tell me you love me in 10 languages or 10 times in one?

84. Would you rather take a silly photo booth picture or a serious portrait?

85. Would you rather send me a playlist of love songs or upbeat songs?

86. Would you rather share dessert or appetizers?

87. Would you rather spend a rainy day inside or out?

88. Would you rather watch fireworks together or light sparklers?

89. Would you rather send me your favorite meme or a random selfie?

90. Would you rather I kiss your hand or your forehead?

91. Would you rather play 20 questions or Would You Rather every day for a week?

92. Would you rather cuddle under a blanket or under the stars?

93. Would you rather hear my laugh or my whisper?

94. Would you rather send me a voice note or a video note?

95. Would you rather I make you dinner or breakfast in bed?

96. Would you rather we plan everything or be spontaneous together?

97. Would you rather I steal your hoodie or your blanket?

98. Would you rather celebrate our anniversary privately or with friends?

99. Would you rather tell me a sweet dream or a funny one?

100. Would you rather fall in love with me all over again or relive our first kiss?

     
     

Final Thoughts On Would You Rather Questions For Couples

Playing through our 'would you rather questions for couples' list is one of the funnest activites for long distance couples and is a simple way to keep things interesting when you’re apart. From cute and romantic questions to a few spicy ones that bring extra heat, these prompts can turn any call into a playful and memorable date night.

Looking for more ways to connect across the distance? Don’t forget to check out our curated collection of long-distance couple gifts sweet, thoughtful, and always cute.