8 Fun and Quirky Activities for Long-Distance Couples
- Rhys Penfold
- Aug 24
- 4 min read
Updated: 5 days ago

Being apart from your partner can feel heavy at times. You miss the little things, the spontaneous coffee runs, the casual hand-holding, the comfort of just existing in the same room. But here’s the upside: long-distance couples often create some of the most memorable, creative, and playful ways to connect.
Instead of only sticking to phone calls or FaceTime, you can turn the distance into a chance to do things most couples never think of. Here are 8 fun and quirky activities that will help you laugh, bond, and dream together, no matter how far apart you are.
1. Cook Together (From Afar)
Food has a funny way of bringing people together, even through a screen. Choose a recipe you’ve both never tried (or maybe one that reminds you of home), shop for ingredients, and set up your cameras in the kitchen.
As you chop, stir, and taste-test, you’ll feel like you’re side by side. Don’t stress if it doesn’t turn out perfect; half the fun is in the “oops” moments. Light some candles, plate your meals, and eat together on video chat. It’s dinner, laughter, and romance rolled into one.
2. Themed Movie Nights (Costumes Optional but Encouraged)
Movie nights are a long-distance classic, but let’s turn them up a notch. Pick a movie, sync your start times, and add a theme. If you’re watching a rom-com, wear comfy pyjamas and have ice cream on hand. Watching Harry Potter? Throw on a scarf from your Hogwarts house.
You could even create movie bingo cards (“dramatic pause,” “unexpected plot twist,” “kiss scene”) and play along while chatting. The costumes, snacks, and silly extras transform a simple stream into an actual date night.
3. Your Own Two-Person Book (or Podcast) Club
If you’re tired of asking “how was your day?” every call, try this. Pick a book or podcast to experience together, and break it down into chapters or episodes. Afterwards, send each other thoughts, questions, or even silly theories.
It gives you fresh things to talk about, keeps your conversations dynamic, and lets you share a little mental adventure. Plus, hearing your partner’s take on something thought-provoking is a window into how they think, dream, and imagine.
4. Take a Virtual Class Together
Whether you’re shaking it out in an online dance class, experimenting with a cocktail workshop, or learning to draw, virtual classes are a fantastic way to learn and laugh together.
You don’t need to be good at it; the mistakes are half the fun. And who knows? Maybe you’ll discover a shared hobby you’ll enjoy once you’re finally together in person.
5. Send Each Other Surprise Packages
Long-distance love thrives on little surprises. Imagine your partner’s face lighting up when they open a box filled with their favourite snacks, a handwritten letter, or a random trinket that reminded you of them.
The effort shows you’re thinking of them, and the package becomes a tangible reminder of your love. To make it more exciting, plan to open them together on a video call so you both get that unwrapping thrill.
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6. Play Quirky Online Games
Sure, you could go for intense competitive games, but sometimes it’s more fun to play lighthearted ones. Try online escape rooms, Pictionary apps, or cozy co-op games like farming sims, where you can “build a life” together virtually.
These games bring out your teamwork, spark lots of laughter, and give you the chance to feel playful again, something every relationship needs, especially across distance.
7. Write a Story Together
Start with one line: “Once upon a time, a penguin found a teleportation device…” Then send it back and forth, each adding a few lines. Before you know it, you’ll have created a chaotic comedy, a heartfelt romance, or even a mini novel filled with inside jokes.
It’s a simple but powerful way to stretch your imaginations together, and the story becomes a keepsake you’ll always treasure.
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8. Dream Up Your Next Adventure
Part of what makes long-distance hard is not knowing when the next hug will happen. Balance that with planning and dreaming. Make a Pinterest board together of places you want to go, or start a “couple’s bucket list” of things to do once you reunite.
Even if you can’t book flights yet, the dreaming itself gives you both something to look forward to and creates the sense of a shared future, which is the heartbeat of any long-distance relationship.
Final Thoughts: Making the Miles Sweeter
Long-distance love doesn’t mean you’re missing out; it just means you’re writing your story a little differently. The distance can be tough, but it also gives you room to be creative, playful, and intentional in ways many couples never explore.
With these heartfelt and fun activities for long-distance couples, you’ll not only keep your bond strong, but you’ll also create memories that make the day you reunite even sweeter.
Love thrives on laughter, imagination, and shared dreams, and you can have all of that, no matter the miles.
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